after a divorce your gonna have a hard time. Especially if you had a bad divorce.
The thing is... you have to come to the realization that your never going to find that "one". You just need to find someone you really vibe with, and can see yourself building something with. She doesnt have to be perfect, cuz no one is. Dont put the pressure of finding the perfect mate on yourself. When the time is right with that person that you feel good with, you'll open your heart to her, and then you'll find out if it's meant to be.